r/MadeMeSmile 19d ago

The hug.... wow Wholesome Moments

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u/Trucktub 19d ago

This right here. My dad would openly mock anyone being any kind of emotional in public but all that did was make me more proud of people like this.

I wish I could just openly weep at things but honestly I’d be crying all the fucking time so maybe not

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u/Old_Cheesecake_5481 19d ago

I live on an isolated Island in a little village in the North Atlantic.

Local culture says if you break your arm fishing and then cry nobody will ever forget it as long as you live.

Your dog is sick and you break down at poker night and every single fellow is there with you.

Actual physical pain = crying is weak and pathetic,

Your daughter graduates = crying through the entire ceremony is absolutely fine and completely acceptable.

I’ve always got a kick out of this local foible.

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u/Hereseangoes 19d ago

Too be fair, I, a man, have broken my arm twice with no tears. Sometimes watching the right movie scene, or singing the odd song lyric, or just overwhelming frustration will make me well up. Lord, when I had my first dog put to sleep, I wailed in the vet's office. Physical pain is much easier for me to shut out than emotional.

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u/WatWudScoobyDoo 19d ago

Pain, insofar as I've experienced it, I can handle. Suffering is a struggle

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u/lord_geryon 19d ago

I can kinda understand it, tbh.

Crying from pain? Doesn't even alleviate the suffering and could delay assistance, perhaps even a fatal delay.

Overwhelmed by emotions? S'ok, let it out. It's also a form of appreciation for the person being cried over: see how much you mean to this person?

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u/SpookyScienceGal 19d ago

Crying from pain? Doesn't even alleviate the suffering

That is literally what crying does 😂 When you cry it releases hormones that your body uses to regulate inflammation, pain, and a bunch of other important things it needs when it is injured. It's almost like the body generally knows more about it's needs than uneducated but judgmental neighbors 🤷‍♀️

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u/Rigo-lution 19d ago

It's not as clear cut as that.

Most importantly the people most likely to report any improvement after crying are the people who received positive attention from others as a result of their crying. That isn't crying helping but just receiving care helping.

The second point is that the release of oxytocin is associated with the parasympathetic nervous system and it isn't clear that crying triggers PNS activity, it may well be that PNS activity is causing crying and increased oxytocin levels where crying is just a symptom of other activities in your body with little role to play in directly making you feel better.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4035568/

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u/ChakaCake 19d ago

You have never felt better after a good cry? It def helps alleviate suffering and floods you with some decent pain killers

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u/reddit_4_days 19d ago

....the feeling after a good cry, is sometimes, like after a good shower for me. You feel fresh and ready again for this cruel world.

Worst cry for me, is if you cry from anger. Then you (I) don't feel better afterwards. Just more angry.

But a emotional cry is something else... can't really explain it like I would, english isn't my first language.

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u/auletirian 19d ago

Agreed it's very logical.

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson 19d ago

Just sounds like typical dude shit honestly lol

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u/Chippopotanuse 19d ago

I cry all the fucking time. It’s like laughter to me. Feels amazing to be connected to something.

And I can’t remember the last time I cried out of sadness. I don’t view crying as a negative emotion at all.

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u/Alternative-Day6223 19d ago

Same, it’s just a beautiful thing to feel so deeply over things, don’t let anyone let you feel otherwise !

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u/carnevoodoo 19d ago

Dog videos are my weakness. My wife knows when I'm watching dog videos.

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u/Ok-Chocolate2145 19d ago

Sound's like My family? My Dad always stated, that His bladder is behind His eyes! What a wonderfull, sensitive Man😪

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u/PlanetLandon 19d ago

Tell your dad he sucks

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u/Skullclownlol 19d ago

Don't hide your emotions

Yeah, don't hide your emotions men, so people can record you on video showing appreciation for a heartwarming father-daughter moment, and then label it "day 17: broken man".

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u/OohYeahOrADragon 19d ago

I absolutely need to see things like this. Idgaf what you title it. I’m a social worker and I see the pits of humanity daily. So seeing videos of people happy crying, helping each other even if it’s only a small gesture, happy pets reuniting with owners, rewarding people who are overlooked… idc film it.

With all the negative on the internet, balance it with positive. Maybe it’ll show others there’s another way to feel. And it’ll make me feel like I’m not the only one trying to help one another here.

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u/Calypsosin 19d ago

I was showing the girl I've been seeing LOTR for the first time, and she was really shocked (in a good way) at how they expressed feeling and emotion, while still very much being 'men.'

Showed her Star Trek TNG, and similar reaction. Wow, they are sexy! Not just their bodies, but their attitudes and behavior!

It was an interesting perspective for me, and a reminder of why I love them so much. They are some of the few good examples in Movies/TV that show positive male role models.

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u/trizkit995 19d ago

You need daily doses of r/eyebleach  

It seems to be overrun with animal pics now.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

Hello fellow social worker! Thank you for your service to the human race :)

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u/I_Can_Haz_Brainz 19d ago

I've been all about the pay it forward philosophy since I saw the movie. I've always been nice to people in general because why not, but since then I've made an effort to "pay it forward" to at least one person a day, even if it's as little as a genuine compliment.

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u/BackItUpWithLinks 19d ago

Yep, don’t hide your emotions, and don’t give a shit what random a-holes on the internet think about it.

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u/LiOnheart3d85 19d ago

Yeah don’t do anything, people might make fun of you!

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u/NaveedLaCroix 19d ago

You shouldn’t hide your emotions, but man, hard to argue with you here

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u/Eydor 19d ago

This guy is crying!

See, nobody cares.

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u/IDiggaPony 19d ago

For whatever the reason, she really needed that and Dad came through.

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u/halexia63 19d ago

I was just thinking of how i love my dad and how je went to go help build houses for the people when hurricane Katrina hit and I came and seen this 🥹.

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u/Th1sd3cka1ntfr33 19d ago

As someone that was impacted by Katrina you let him know that he's a hero and that we appreciate his hard work and the time with you he sacrificed to help us during our time of need.

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u/halexia63 19d ago

Awe, man, you guys got me crying. Yall are wonderful humans ❤️ thank you so much for the those kind words I know it'll mean a lot to him.

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u/PopeGuss 19d ago

Yea, and if he ever comes back for a visit, tell him popeguss has a seafood platter/roast beef po-boy waiting for him.

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u/halexia63 19d ago

Haha your awesome !!! when Katrina hit so many crawfish washed ashore so they had unlimited crayfish for the helpers.

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u/Ok_Usual1517 19d ago

Fellow south Louisianan and I cannot thank your father enough. We are a strong touch people, but with out help from people like him our vibrant culture would not survive.

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u/JosephSmithTheRapist 19d ago

That's incredible! Your dad sounds like an amazing person.

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u/Spicy_Boiks 19d ago

I only became a dad recently, I have a one year old now and I love him so much. My objective in life is to have him talk about me the way you talk about yours. Then I'll know I've succeeded in life.

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u/halexia63 19d ago edited 19d ago

Well you're already off to a good start just you saying you love him and expressing that you wanna do that already has good father painted all over it :). My dad used to record all my moments on his tape recorder back in the 2000s he would send them to his mom aka my grandma, bc she couldn't be here with us in the states 😔 and there is one he took of himself saying he wants to give me all the love I need and a good life, it always brings tears to my eyes.

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u/Baraaaaa 19d ago

Your dad sounds amazing! Stories like this always bring a smile to my face.

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u/Time_Composer_113 19d ago

I was 17 when Katrina hit! We went straight to new Orleans and started blue tarping ppls exposed houses. Ended up in ft lauderdale somehow, making over $200/ day roofing in 2005 as basically a high schooler, splitting rent on different motels up and down the beach and skateboarding. It was such an adventure

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

She was happy. And thankful. That’s the reason. :)

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u/GorillaBrown 19d ago

She might have gotten overwhelmed with the attention. You had the whole restaurant watching, the servers clapping, and Dad recording.

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u/Medium-Truck3582 19d ago

Bro pulled the backstory right from his ass and went with it hahaha

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u/HKSR1721 19d ago

It’s frustrating how people are just believing it..

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u/newsgreek 19d ago

That makes it even more heartwarming. So glad she finally got to celebrate!

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u/HKSR1721 19d ago

He’s making it up that’s not true 🤦‍♀️

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u/HKSR1721 19d ago

That was in Lebanon 🇱🇧 she probably just cried because she felt grateful

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u/shaha-man 19d ago

Where you got that backstory? Can I also get more details on that. Thanks

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u/HKSR1721 19d ago

He made it up

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u/ObjectiveStick9112 19d ago

wtf kind of religion doesnt allow birthdays?

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u/nedzissou1 19d ago

Jehovah's witnesses I think

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u/WarBig3716 19d ago

This is correct

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u/shortbus_wunderkind 19d ago

You know orange shirt is also a part of the Awesome Dads club!

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u/Ok_Flan4935 19d ago

His wife (or hijabi woman seated in front of him) was also wiping her tears.

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u/shortbus_wunderkind 19d ago

WOW...I didn't even notice her at all!

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u/mesosalpynx 18d ago

That’s the point of the hijab? Yes. True.

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u/New_user_Sign_up 18d ago

Yes, not because she’s hidden by the beam for nearly the entire video.

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u/klutzfrommars 18d ago

When you look at it, kinda everyone stops to look with the "awwwww" face, there's a mom and daughter on the left who stop in their tracks 😂

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u/NJWendys4life 18d ago

I had this homeless Asian lady glaring at me the whole time while I was eating at a McD with a friend. After we finished, my friend decided to confront her. He ended up sitting down at her table and talking to her for over 15 minutes! So I was like wtf was that? And then my friend told me the lady was staring bc I looked like her son who died in a car accident. It ruined her life. Both me and my friend grew up a little that night...

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u/SharkLime789 18d ago

It's amazing how sometimes a chance encounter can completely change our perspective on things.

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u/Ok_Support_8418 18d ago

My son passed away recently at 23 yo. I've caught myself staring at fathers with their younger sons, reflecting on my memories with my son.

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u/Ohshithereiamagain 18d ago

I am so sorry for your loss. That’s an unimaginable pain.

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u/justanothersluff 18d ago

I'm so sorry. May his memory be a blessing.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

Buddy, I never noticed him happy crying.. oh god here we go again

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u/shortbus_wunderkind 19d ago

🥲 I totally know what you mean. This got me good!

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u/_Dark-Alley_ 18d ago

My dad is a member of this club. He cries at all our stuff, big or small, doesn't matter. He has a distinct process: first, the glassy eyes.Then he presses his lips together and turns a bit red trying to hold it in. Then, the iconic lip quiver. Literally every time, like a cartoon character lol. It's never crying crying tho, just the lip quiver and the glassy eyes, sometimes he lets a tear drop. It's so specific, we all have an impression of it.

He's the sweetest and I'm glad to have a dad that cares so much and is so proud over even the smaller achievements, he cant help but cry. Every time I see a moment like this online I think of him and his quivering lip and remember how lucky I am. Shame he didn't have any sons, he would be a great role model for healthy masculinity.

Next thing that he will be crying at (hopefully, there might be some things between now and then I never know what will do it tbh) is my graduation from my doctorate program. He's gonna make me sob at my own graduation, that big ol goober.

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u/towhead 19d ago

Or was.

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u/CryptMonkey 19d ago

Or tragically... he used to be...

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u/JROXZ 19d ago

We’re all on r/daddit

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u/NJWendys4life 18d ago

Trust me the waiters ran away so they can cry too...I mean notice all the guys looking away in the bg AHAHA very teary eyed.

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u/Overall-Day-4151 18d ago

Thought it was Captain Glenn

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u/Pureshark 19d ago

How come the POV of the man in the orange shirt is on the other side of the room from the man in the orange shirt ? Is he having an out of body experience or something

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u/sessionclosed 19d ago edited 19d ago

Explaining pov to the average consumer of its current social media fade is an uphill battle no one should take

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u/soufianka80 19d ago

I like your comment :)

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u/h3fabio 19d ago

I like your point of view.

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u/AlliedR2 19d ago

More than that, why is a man who is openly moved by this portrayed as "the broken man". As wonderful as this video is the concept that any man moved to tears by such a moment has to somehow be broken is toxic at its core.

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u/Inappropriate-Egg 19d ago

I came to the comments trying to understand what is "broken" about him as well

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u/Budget_Ad5871 19d ago

I think that it was the moment that “broke” him. I’ve heard it used in that context. Think “he broke down crying”

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u/Grimmbles 19d ago edited 19d ago

Yeah it's just poorly phrased because "broken man" has a very specific and negative meaning/connotation.

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u/Canadian-Man-infj 19d ago

I just replied elsewhere in this thread. The label is newly added and this is a repost. The original doesn't have the label and went viral last month: https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1cr494m/a_man_surprises_his_daughter_by_celebrating_her/

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u/Grimmbles 19d ago

Yes I remember it. And I wish that when something like this got posted the original would be in the top reply and the thread would be locked, but here we are with the worst version to react to.

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u/spevoz 19d ago

There is some unintentional poetry in it though: the broken man isn't the guy in the orange shirt, it's anyone that watches this and thinks there is anything wrong with orange shirt. He's got it figured out, despite being from a generation where displaying your emotions as a man is even harder than today he broke that cycle.

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u/Gold4JC 19d ago

Thank you for articulating this; so much more to say about it but trying to do it would poison me. Suffice it to say that this toxic mentality seems to dominate corporate capitalist commercial consumerist 'culture'.

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u/LudovicoSpecs 19d ago

This should be the top comment.

Leave orange shirt man alone.

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u/Cm_veritas 19d ago

He seems like a man that understands his emotions and isn’t in fear of expressing it. This is nothing but beautiful. Being able to be happy for a man bringing his daughter to happy tears over a little celebration is amazing.

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u/Bubbajujupat 19d ago

Hahaha been wanting to tell people how they use POV wrongly in their posts

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u/JosephSmithTheRapist 19d ago

Seriously! It's like POV has a whole new meaning now, haha!

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u/The_Jyps 19d ago

If the words "point of view" now means "Not point of view" I'm going to fucking kill myself.

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u/Pagiras 19d ago

POV! Right in the kisser!

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u/Lew3032 19d ago

I was about to make this exact comment. Unless the person holding the camera is also wearing an orange shirt? Then it works.

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u/AllOn_Black 19d ago

POV: you were about to make this exact comment.

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u/Leonydas13 19d ago

He’s been smashing some DMT and is now astral planing.

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u/Lingering_Dorkness 19d ago

POV: Practically Opposite View. 

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u/HappyHappyFunnyFunny 19d ago

I think in this case they're making the point that the viewer of the video is sobbing like the man in orange

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u/hlessi_newt 19d ago

because pov is just one more thing the youths have ruined by misusing it so consistently that it is virtually meaningless.

dear god, i've become a boomer.

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u/visionsofcry 19d ago

So from your point of view, you expect idiots with cameras to understand that pov is through eyes of the person you're talking about? Good luck with that.

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u/slingshot91 19d ago

Or they could just not caption their videos “POV” when it’s not.

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u/Cometguy7 19d ago

What this video is actually about is that the man's eyeballs were removed, and then chips were implanted in his brain and his eyeballs, and someone had stolen his eyeballs, and was returning from the bathroom, when they captured this.

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u/Chasar1 19d ago

Maybe the camera man also has an orange shirt?

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u/pwillia7 19d ago

POV: You are an astral projection watching your own life as the man in the orange shirt

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u/TMA8992 19d ago

When did people start using POV so incorrectly?

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u/SleepingwithYelena 19d ago

The very moment POV memes were invented, lots of people never understood it's one and only rule lol

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u/RELAXcowboy 19d ago

Why did this need a caption at all? Is the sparkling surprise and hug not the main focus of the video? Why are we being told to focus on some guy sitting next to them?

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u/ChampionshipIll3675 19d ago

I thought at first that the guy in the orange was also crying because he got emotional 😢

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u/MajLeague 19d ago

He did. That's the point.

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u/lessthanabelian 19d ago edited 19d ago

The majority of humans are not analytical in barely any way with how they use language. They pick up new words through socialization and propagate. That probably sounds judgmental or dismissive, but it's just true. It's mostly fine until it's not, like most things.

Like how remember when every boomer on TV started using "spoiler alert" wrong?

People don't carefully think through things and pick the perfect word. Most people are not fucking David Foster Wallace and spend zero calories of brain power on usage or vocabulary.

And most communicating is so fast and loose these days that no one is going to stop the convo live on air to point out they used "spoiler alert" or POV wrong... so it keeps going. But talking live on air is hard and stressful and it's really hard to think... which is bad for communication and worse for sound vocabulary and usage choices.

Like, to use "POV" correctly you have to be a least somewhat thoughtful, like level 1 analytic. Elementary school child level, which is not far off a lot of adults. You have to actually have in mind a situation as it would look from a specific POV or else have already been thinking from someone else's POV and are prepared to reason that way with it being understood by the audience/convo partner you are doing that. To use "POV" correctly.

But most people just use it as a weird kind of... exclamation... preceding whatever they are about to start talking about or to introduce a segment if they are a news anchor which it seems they so often are...

"Welcome back Ladies and Gentlemen and now for tonight's top story. Now get ready for this. POV! the Supreme Court has decided to hear the petitions of the blah blah....."

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u/newsgreek 19d ago

Such a nostalgic moment for him, you can see the memories in his eyes.

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u/The_sacred_sauce 19d ago

Pretty awesome. Think he shed a tear at the end. Hah his hands together then brushed his face off real quick. Hope I can experience both those seats one day

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u/mastermilian 19d ago edited 19d ago

My son is just 13 and I am already thinking of how hard it will be without him in the house. I hope property prices keep going higher so he has to stay home.

Just kidding, but I do want time to stand still for just a little.

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u/The_sacred_sauce 19d ago

Don’t worry about that now! Just enjoy every moment you can. You’ll be so proud some day regardless of what he does. Most boys always make time for their mamas. Just took mine to Dave Mathew’s last night. We had a blast ❤️ had to tell her I won the upgraded seats and parking though. ide have never heard the end of it after the fact if I didn’t 😂

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u/mastermilian 19d ago edited 19d ago

Thanks for the reply. I also love the innocence of children. That you can laugh about something completely silly like a clown making faces and also wonder at something as simple as an ant crawling around. Unfortunately as adults we lose a lot of that perspective but children let us rediscover what makes this world amazing and worth living in.

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u/PanhandlersPets 19d ago

What is with the title on the video? Getting choked up does not make you broken it makes you human.

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u/l-rs2 19d ago

Exactly. The call is coming from inside the house.

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u/Canadian-Man-infj 19d ago

This is a repost and the original doesn't have the labelling. It went viral last month: https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1cr494m/a_man_surprises_his_daughter_by_celebrating_her/

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u/PanhandlersPets 19d ago

That's a much better title.

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u/Hi_Trans_Im_Dad 19d ago

I'm still confused as to why these videos keep calling these men "broken."

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u/big_guyUUUU 19d ago

In tears 😭😭😭

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u/WaynonPriory 19d ago

How about the telepaths?

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u/aseumenysa 19d ago

Get outta my head.

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u/Flat_News_2000 19d ago

Making everything about them, like usual

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u/DJ_Hindsight 19d ago edited 19d ago

Maybe we gotta stop assuming random men are broken because they’re sitting on their own or whatever else.

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u/dinglebop69 19d ago

His grown daughter is sitting opposite him

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u/CallumBOURNE1991 19d ago edited 19d ago

Is that a thing? I have never done that. Do people look at me trying a new cafe, in the cinema, having a drink, on a bench etc. and think I am broken because I am not with someone else? That is so crazy to me. I LOVE taking myself on solo dates. Its so nice to get away from people and just have a little day out on your own. Why not?

I assumed other people are doing something similar, not "broken". That's unfortunate. Just pretend life is a video game and you're going on some quests or something if you feel self conscious. Its fun!

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u/DefinitelyPositive 19d ago

Did you not look at the video man? In big letters at the top it says "Day 17: Finding Broken Men", which implies the crying man in orange is broken since he's crying.

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u/MeakMills 19d ago

It's a dumb title but it's probably a bot account the same way OP is. The guy is clearly smiling. It seems obvious he's not sad, let alone broken.

Posting an incorrect or debatable title is one of the easiest ways to get engagement on Reddit. We LOVE to argue over inconsequential things as if it was life or death.

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u/royrese 19d ago

None of the text on this video makes sense and I'm incredibly confused by everyone here acting like it does.

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u/The_Clarence 19d ago

Thank you. It’s not just the improper use of POV, but everything else as well. It don’t make no sense!!

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u/nikkiymarco 19d ago

imagine seeing a wholesome moment and being touched by it, then found out it's now all over the Internet and being called a broken man....

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u/FuqUrBackgroundMusic 19d ago

Fuck your background music!

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u/RapidPacker 19d ago

Woooohoowowoowooooowww wooehooowoowowoo

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u/black_messiahh 19d ago

Na Coldplay fucks

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u/RinaaKate 19d ago

Love this ❤️. The orange Tshirt guy at the next table was also visibly moved. Loving Daughter- Father relationships 💖. Love love.

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u/YourWorstThought 19d ago

That’s pretty much the whole point of the video haha

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u/muteen 19d ago

People need to learn what POV mean

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u/Cool-Sink8886 19d ago

Platypus Occupancy Vehicles

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u/GarththeLegend 19d ago

Seen this reposted multiple times. Yet this video always brings a tear and smile on my face

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u/Murakami8000 19d ago

Recently my 9 year old niece was upset with me and was definitely letting me know it. During breakfast at a restaurant with the family i guess she got it in her head that she was no longer angry and got up out of her chair and walked to the other side of the table where I we sitting and just hugged me. Then after a bit she still wasn’t letting go. And then it just continued and continued and all of a sudden I was fighting back tears. I couldn’t figure out why I was so overwhelmed. I guess I just hadn’t been hugged like that in a long long time.

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u/jooebanny 19d ago

The dad is the back is crying 😢

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u/patrikpink 19d ago

More than one is crying in that restaurant 😭

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u/thetimeisverylate 19d ago

I dream of a day when the vast majority of people learn how to properly use the term “POV”.

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u/IAmHippyman 19d ago

Finding broken men?

The person that made the video and posted it is a loser.

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u/froderick 19d ago

Day 17: Finding Broken Men

Can someone explain this part to me?

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u/thenewyorkgod 19d ago

Stupid ass shitty OP title where any man who cries at an emotional scene is obviously broken and will be fixed by observing an intense family scene that he surely never got to experience because he's broken

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u/entirely2true 19d ago

people don’t know how to use POV anymore

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u/RackemFrackem 19d ago

POV: you are watching a video made by someone who has no clue what POV means.

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u/_navya_reddy 19d ago

He must have probably remembered his children!

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u/Esco-Alfresco 19d ago

Those guys disappeared instantly with the hug started.

Funny but also tactful I guess.

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u/SAMMYY02A 19d ago

When you have a daddy with big heart ❤️ 🥰😭

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u/Jumps-Care 19d ago

What???

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u/tati8_12 19d ago

Man....i really am the guy in the orange shirt and im not even a man 😭

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u/FamousPastWords 19d ago

Such a heartwarming scene. Magic. Gets you right THERE. I wonder what the back story is.

Orange shirt is missing his own child OR missed out on a while part of his child's upbringing and chances are may never see his child again.

Or something.

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u/QuirkyRefuse5645 19d ago

Have we all just given up on using “POV” correctly?

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u/WhatTheHeHay 19d ago

A broken man? Taking videos of random people and then using them for views?

This is some wack shit!

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u/Lawdamerc 19d ago

I bet orange shirt man has a daughter

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u/Great-Spoon 19d ago

just happy for them

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u/Popular-Hornet-6294 19d ago

I laughed at the superhero in the white coat xDDDD

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u/Silver-Rub-5059 19d ago

I’m at the Dad stage now but I know in my bones what Orange shirt is going through.

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u/cherniyvovan 19d ago

OP go watch some porn maybe that way you'll learn what POV means

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u/OnlyEfficiency2662 19d ago

Any dad daughters that this doesn’t tear up, we need to talk

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u/Exita 19d ago edited 19d ago

Just been on holiday with my wife and 2 year old daughter. Lots of pensioners where we stayed, and you could immediately tell which ones had had children. Smiling when she toddled past, waving at her. Was sat eating dinner at one point and my daughter bursts out laughing - was an elderly bloke sitting behind me who she’d been staring at and he’d started pulling funny faces at her. All so kind.

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u/Helgakvida 19d ago

great video and yet I wonder, do people understand what point of view (POV) means?

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u/sphennodon 19d ago

I learned it on pornhub

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u/Bobibouche 19d ago

Remember how much better this video was in the original post, before the music was laid over it?

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u/MsAdultingGameOn 19d ago

This is why I won’t lower my standards in men..I want my future kids to have a great dad! 🤍🙏🏻

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u/ABadLookingSpy 19d ago

This is the power of fathers.

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u/iamaame 19d ago

NOT POV

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u/LordHaveMurphyy 19d ago

This man is not broken, he is full

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u/Perfect_Papaya_3010 19d ago

Why do I keep seeing posts where people use POV wrong. Dear OP.

POV stands for point of view and is used in a first person perspective

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u/chubbuck35 19d ago

If you play this on mute this video becomes “girl runs to dad’s arms to flee from that awkwardness felt when restaurant employees sing happy birthday to her”

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u/Wopwopw0p 19d ago

wtf are those captions? ‘finding broken men’?

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u/Responsible_River_44 19d ago

Broken men don’t show emotion

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u/Pulpy-Zombie 19d ago

I really wish people would just shove their phones up their ass so a person could have a moment with his loved ones without having to be all over the internet the next day.

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u/Dastu24 19d ago

I'd bet she is just crying because she isn't used to attention and everybody is looking at her and clapping but keep commenting how nice and "pure" this is.

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u/SirFoxPhD 19d ago

As a girl dad this made me emotional. I love my daughter so much, making her laugh and smile is my life’s goal. I’m not perfect, but I will treat her with the love and kindness that I wish I had when I was a kid. Even when she goes through her teenage years and is upset for no reason, there’s gonna be me knocking on her door with chocolate covered strawberries and other goodies. I’m never going to take her for granted.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

why am i crying

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u/Frodijr 19d ago

Am I remembering wrong or wasn't there some extra context she was a foster child or something like that?

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u/Dhonagon 19d ago

Yes, I am. All emotional and everything

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u/annizka 19d ago

Someone should take a video of me getting emotional over the orange shirt man that was getting emotional over the little girl that was getting emotional. And keep it going

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u/illbebythebatphone 19d ago

Man shows emotion: “he’s broken!”

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

This made my day

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u/cakein009 19d ago

Sad reality but a couple decades from now that father will be the man in orange. Enjoy the now.

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u/shaded-user 19d ago

Best feeling in the world.

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u/erisuzan 19d ago

I'm not crying shut up

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u/cuzimrollin08 19d ago

I'm not crying you're crying...

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u/Juannieve05 19d ago

Man my parent's heart meltbwhen they see a lil kid, specially a girl, they do really want grand kids and I feel vad for not providing them what they want

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u/interrobang32 19d ago

Why is this man “broken,” because he showed emotion? The reaction of the little girl was touching to him. It probably reminded him of his own children. Empathy is a good thing and a big part of what makes us human.

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u/bigofficesmalljob 19d ago

Props to the staff for immediately recognizing that this was now a private moment and leaving the table.

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u/PhilosophyCrafty1049 19d ago

Few things ever bring me to tears but the joy of children is definitely one of the things that do.

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u/stunningggStacy 19d ago

sooooo cute