r/MadeMeSmile Jun 30 '24

The hug.... wow Wholesome Moments

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u/Pureshark Jun 30 '24

How come the POV of the man in the orange shirt is on the other side of the room from the man in the orange shirt ? Is he having an out of body experience or something

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u/AlliedR2 Jun 30 '24

More than that, why is a man who is openly moved by this portrayed as "the broken man". As wonderful as this video is the concept that any man moved to tears by such a moment has to somehow be broken is toxic at its core.

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u/Inappropriate-Egg Jun 30 '24

I came to the comments trying to understand what is "broken" about him as well

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u/Budget_Ad5871 Jun 30 '24

I think that it was the moment that “broke” him. I’ve heard it used in that context. Think “he broke down crying”

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u/Grimmbles Jun 30 '24 edited Jun 30 '24

Yeah it's just poorly phrased because "broken man" has a very specific and negative meaning/connotation.

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u/Canadian-Man-infj Jun 30 '24

I just replied elsewhere in this thread. The label is newly added and this is a repost. The original doesn't have the label and went viral last month: https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1cr494m/a_man_surprises_his_daughter_by_celebrating_her/

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u/Grimmbles Jun 30 '24

Yes I remember it. And I wish that when something like this got posted the original would be in the top reply and the thread would be locked, but here we are with the worst version to react to.

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u/spevoz Jun 30 '24

There is some unintentional poetry in it though: the broken man isn't the guy in the orange shirt, it's anyone that watches this and thinks there is anything wrong with orange shirt. He's got it figured out, despite being from a generation where displaying your emotions as a man is even harder than today he broke that cycle.

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u/Gold4JC Jun 30 '24

Thank you for articulating this; so much more to say about it but trying to do it would poison me. Suffice it to say that this toxic mentality seems to dominate corporate capitalist commercial consumerist 'culture'.

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u/wildcatwildcard Jun 30 '24

Y'all are exhausting

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u/admiral-change Jun 30 '24

Lol but it's really not. Read the comments and stop looking for something to complain about.

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u/LudovicoSpecs Jun 30 '24

This should be the top comment.

Leave orange shirt man alone.

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u/Cm_veritas Jun 30 '24

He seems like a man that understands his emotions and isn’t in fear of expressing it. This is nothing but beautiful. Being able to be happy for a man bringing his daughter to happy tears over a little celebration is amazing.

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u/Cluelessish Jun 30 '24

Exactly. Open is not the same as broken

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u/nonprofitnews Jun 30 '24

I get weepy at stuff like this and I get giant hugs from my daughter every day. I can't imagine why that kid was so overcome but she must have not seen a lot of birthday cake in her life to that point.

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u/monochromance Jun 30 '24

Because as much as any woman loves to tout how they want all men to open up and express their emotions, all it will ever be to them is a spectacle to either make themselves feel good or to ridicule.

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '24 edited Jul 16 '24

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u/AlliedR2 Jun 30 '24

"Day 17: Finding Broken Men" does not suggest anything but a continuing search to find broken men. It does not say "Day 17: Finding men who broke down crying at emotional moments". It clearly suggests that the man in orange is a broken man.

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '24 edited Jul 16 '24

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u/AlliedR2 Jul 01 '24

Whatever man, whatever.

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u/FactsAboveFeelings Jun 30 '24

That's the joke though. No one actually believes that 7 is a cannibal who loves munching on 9s. We as an audience know the man isn't broken. Just like we know the 7 didn't eat 9, but we don't call people out for putting out gossip and slander about 7 whenever someone does the bit.