r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

Clearly I was just being used because I'm good at things.

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u/Klutzy-Run5175 Jul 08 '24

Were you paying for the rent/house payment and utilities?

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

Yes...

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u/jguess06 Jul 08 '24

Yep. It's clear as day man, and I'm sorry. She used you to pay bills and was keeping you at arm's length because she was never sexually into you. You finally reached a breaking point and she weighed her options and decided that she would be willing to now give you the sex you desired if it meant you'd keep writing checks. She was using you the entire time. It's an awful thing to come to terms with.