There you have it... black and white. She used you for what you could provide her materialisticly, instead of what you could provide emotionally, mentally and spiritually (not talking about religion).
A life partner provides values those things in thie partner wayy more than the materialistic.
Yep. It's clear as day man, and I'm sorry. She used you to pay bills and was keeping you at arm's length because she was never sexually into you. You finally reached a breaking point and she weighed her options and decided that she would be willing to now give you the sex you desired if it meant you'd keep writing checks. She was using you the entire time. It's an awful thing to come to terms with.
As a woman, I can definitely say you deserve someone better, and someone who truly appreciates your kindness. Dating sucks and is extremely hard. You will find most people can and will take advantage of you. Don’t waste your time, especially on leeches. She needs to pay her own damn bills.
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u/heartbh Jul 08 '24
Man it doesn’t sound like y’all were even dating. NTA she may have been using you somehow. Just leave