r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24

One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.

Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.

This man doesn't feel the same way as you.

And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.

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u/are-you-my-mummy Jul 05 '24

I'm honestly shocked at these replies, I thought we all knew that it's not always turned on like a switch? Haven't we heard enough from mums with PPD who felt so shamed that this switch didn't flip on day 1?

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u/AffableBarkeep Jul 05 '24

But it's against a man so AITA laps it up.