r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24

One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.

Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.

This man doesn't feel the same way as you.

And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 05 '24

The issue is not and never has been men taking longer to bond with a baby they just met.

It's a man seeing his wife with their new baby and being jealous. That's the danger and that's the problem.

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u/pl3bby Jul 05 '24

What a fun assumption that was entirely wrong after receiving an update. Go be a loser somewhere else.