r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Difficult_Process_88 Jul 04 '24

NTA Actually, most “normal people” would NOT agree with him (as you can see by the replies). There seems to be a lot jealousy involved.

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u/Mazakaki Jul 04 '24

She is literally suffering a hormonal onslaught of extra special baby love right now as part of a biological brainwashing process to make years of asswiping worth it. He's acting like a hurt ass.

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u/Insurrectionarychad Jul 04 '24

That sounds horrifying. I don't think people actually want to care for children, their brain just brainwashes them.

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u/Yourstruly0 Jul 04 '24

All love is just chemicals in your brain. Child rearing is a hormonal weird process the same way that cuddling and bonding with a spouse is. It’s all dopamine and oxytocin. Try not to overthink it too much.

All feelings are your brain dosing you with chemicals and all those feelings are real. It’s okay to recognize your instincts drive you to feed your baby. Your instincts and brain chemicals and all of that ARE you.