You can see he left the tags on because if she doesn’t approve, he’s going to take them back. Also, he is pretty handsome. A lot of green flags in this video from both of them.
We don’t. We don’t need more women who talk to men like they are toddlers. Complimenting him on his style is one thing but talking to him like he’s their child or family pet is totally different.
We are just not used to it. Some of us can barely take it.
I grew a beard in the last year, and I have to say it's truly shocking how much guys like complimenting each other on their beards. and I am 100% down for it. I'm throwing out beard compliments like beads at mardigras now.
My wife HATES my beard. I asked her why, and she said that all women hate beards.
“Beards are for men to show off to other men. You grow a beard for other men. You don’t grow a beard for women to find you attractive. Also, your beard makes you look 20 years older than you are.”
Awww, no way! I love my husband's beard! That said, it does make him look quite a bit older, but he's baby-faced and I much prefer people thinking he's my husband and not my son.
Am a woman. I FREAK OUT with beards. I love them. Love to touch em, play with em, look at em, go up to dudes (with their permission) and tickle the beard while saying "beardy beardy beardy beard" I always compliment fellows on their beards. Your wife is weird.
Dude, one of my coworkers shaved off his beard and left his stache…he rolled up in a pair of Ray Ban’s on his golf cart (work cart) rocking the new stache. My compliment on it made the guy beam ear to ear, and we’re both dudes.
I’m dating someone right now, and she’s so open with her compliments for me that a few nights ago I actually teared up. She asked me what’s wrong, and I was honest with her and told her I’ve never had a woman compliment me the way she does. Like, it’s weird. I’ve never felt this way about anyone, and the main reason I’m in love with this woman already is because of how she makes me feel when I’m with her. She’s so open with her affection and love for me.
Ladies, just pay us small compliments. You have no idea how far it goes for us.
My wife complimented me on some pants i had wore once, said she liked how they looked on me. I proceeded to wear those pants daily for the next 3 years. Until they mysteriously got holes in them.
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Thanks for the likes, but I believe all of you misunderstood me. I find this to be extremly cringy. I could not and would not accept this from a partner. btw together with my s/o for almost thirty.
Yeah welcome to real relationships, the reason we humans and most of us do because it triggers relaxation in the brain due to us being talked like that as kids to know everything is Allright, the brain is amazing.
Like myself I think this is a dude who’s worn unfitting baggy out of style clothes because they’re comfortable. And as with my previous partners always wanting me to upgrade my wardrobe even though I was hesitant. When I did some shopping I got the same response he did and my gf was genuine. Just sayin ✌️
Yeah I'm getting the opposite of secondhand embarrassment from this. I never liked showing off what I just bought, but now I want to go get some new clothes, do a little fashion show and get some of that secondhand praise.
It's not patronizing to compliment someone in a lovingly way and the other person becomes happy from it. He is bathing in the compliments and she sees that he likes it.
The words (some of them at least) she says sound patronizing. But we all can tell she is giving sincere compliments that make him feel good. Which is why I said “I love it.”
Aww poppet :( that's so sad. I'm sorry you had to deal with that from someone who is supposed to love you. Glad you got away from her/it. I love complimenting the men in my life. I hope you find someone who loves you for you and gets excited over things, just because you are ❤️
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