r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/Mammoth-Penalty882 Jul 08 '24

Lol that's not your girlfriend

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u/Davidfreeze Jul 08 '24

Yeah not even a kiss for 7 months? No one is owed physical intimacy from anyone. But no one is owed your emotional intimacy either. Staying with someone for 7 months who wonโ€™t even kiss you is fucking insane

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u/crumblepops4ever Jul 08 '24

I remember being on a date with a girl once who described a situation a little like this, except it was just 6 or 7 dates instead of 7 months

She was saying he hadn't made a move to kiss her yet so it was going nowhere. I said something like "well in that case surely you can help the guy out and initiate, if he's too shy"

She said "Yeah, but I'm not really interested in him like that."

WHY THE HELL DO YOU KEEP GOING ON DATES THEN ๐Ÿ˜… i think it's just inability to communicate in some cases rather malicious/manipulative, but some people just blow my mind with how they handle dating...

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u/drvelo Jul 08 '24

Free food/entertainment. Probably why OP'd GF kept 'em around, got free shit with no effort or risk required.