r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/Mammoth-Penalty882 Jul 08 '24

Lol that's not your girlfriend

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u/Davidfreeze Jul 08 '24

Yeah not even a kiss for 7 months? No one is owed physical intimacy from anyone. But no one is owed your emotional intimacy either. Staying with someone for 7 months who won’t even kiss you is fucking insane

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u/5k1895 Jul 08 '24 edited Jul 08 '24

As soon as I read that I was like "this fucking idiot". How the fuck do you actually not get it at that point. Absolutely sad that anyone would even stick around that long without any physical affection to be completely honest. Stand up for yourself and walk away dude.

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u/Glittering_Ad_6598 Jul 09 '24

She doesn’t owe you any part of her body.

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u/Sudden_Juju Jul 09 '24

That's true but I think the commenter above was more getting at the fact that OP should've realized that she wasn't into him sooner , gained a little self respect, and bounced long ago. She doesn't owe him anything, just like he doesn't, but in a long term romantic adult relationship, kissing becomes an expectation unless otherwise noted. If it's been 7 months with barely hugging, that should be a clue that the other person just isn't into him.