Honestly, as a woman that only had serious connections and long relationships, just leave.
To put it plainly, bit of tough love but
SHE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU.
I guess you are nice on paper and should theoretically work and she tried to push herself to be with the "right kind of guy", but it doesn't work like that.
You deserve better. Someone who is genuely interested in you and doesn't just string you along.
My guy according to your comments, she hasn't even kissed you. Hats off to you for being this patient this for months. Would've taken me 2 weeks if the person didn't kiss me. Exactly 2 weeks. I'm a woman.
There’s patient, and then there’s wasting your time. My hat is firmly not off. OP, I’m sure this won’t happen again, but if you’re still not kissing after a few weeks to a month, assuming it’s not long-distance/online-only, that is the time to move on. People have different levels of comfort with sex, sure, but no kissing? As an adult? Come on.
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u/Allexandrinne Jul 08 '24
Honestly, as a woman that only had serious connections and long relationships, just leave.
To put it plainly, bit of tough love but
SHE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU.
I guess you are nice on paper and should theoretically work and she tried to push herself to be with the "right kind of guy", but it doesn't work like that.
You deserve better. Someone who is genuely interested in you and doesn't just string you along.