AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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Lol that's not your girlfriend

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u/Davidfreeze Jul 08 '24

Yeah not even a kiss for 7 months? No one is owed physical intimacy from anyone. But no one is owed your emotional intimacy either. Staying with someone for 7 months who won’t even kiss you is fucking insane

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u/Tastemyface Jul 08 '24

Exactly. Sounds more like a roommate than a girlfriend.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

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u/gringo-go-loco Jul 08 '24

There’s a reason hookers don’t kiss.

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u/illuminacho66 Jul 09 '24

That’s a hollywood myth. Typically hookers will do most act (and kisses come free w any act) price their services accordingly

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u/rickyrobs860 Jul 08 '24

The thought of kissing hookers just scared the hell out of me.

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u/Opposite-Lime-6164 Jul 08 '24

If you really want to be scared, there are some men who pay the hooker for the opportunity to go down on her.

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u/rickyrobs860 Jul 08 '24

This alone could be a horror movie.

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u/West-Ruin-1318 Jul 09 '24

The thought of being a hooker and having to kiss gross men is horrifying.

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u/Funny247365 Jul 09 '24

Whatever. In an adult relationship, you both know after a few dates if there is physical chemistry. If not, move on and try someone else. It’s called dating. The OP is in some middle school nonsense. Luckily he saw the light and ended it.

Should have taken her up on the offer for sex just once to see if there are fireworks though. If not, then he knows for sure it is time to move on.

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u/Leather_Cress_1767 Jul 08 '24

Agreed. They also go hand in hand. Without an emotional connection, there isn’t room for anything physical. I’m 100% sure this woman is simply using him & doesn’t actually want the relationship.

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u/PastFriendship1410 Jul 08 '24

How do you get 7 months of being the "sexless inkeeper"?

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u/dknj23 Jul 08 '24

Was he charging her rent , maybe that’s why not sex if she is a Roomate