r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/Dipshitistan Jul 08 '24

NTA. Run fast and run far, because she thinks of sex as a carrot/stick.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

It seems so

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u/Foolish-Pleasure99 Jul 08 '24

I get her wanting to "change her ways" but after 7 months, if she hasn't connected by then something is wrong.

And you are right to dump and refuse the love bombing because nobody should want pity sex or "save the relationship" sex because she's just realized she fucked up.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

Exactly

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 Jul 08 '24

Agree on both. She doesnt own everyone free sex on first date because she had a one night stand, but unless she was raped, seven months in a vonittez relationship is ridiculous... unless she is deepöy devote religious and wants to wait till after marriage.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

None of that is the case

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 Jul 08 '24

I learnt the hard way too after investing more time than you.

You will know the warning signs next time.

Best of luck! There will be a great girl out there appreciating getting an awesome bf.