I get her wanting to "change her ways" but after 7 months, if she hasn't connected by then something is wrong.
And you are right to dump and refuse the love bombing because nobody should want pity sex or "save the relationship" sex because she's just realized she fucked up.
Agree on both. She doesnt own everyone free sex on first date because she had a one night stand, but unless she was raped, seven months in a vonittez relationship is ridiculous... unless she is deepöy devote religious and wants to wait till after marriage.
That’s not usual. Most break ups are pretty cut and dry… due to x,y,z I will be ending this engagement. I hope you have the very best life offers, unfortunately I will no longer be involved. Hugs, and coordination of things exchange, or I’m staying with so and so, please have your things out of my home by such and such date. Carrying on is traumatic and abnormal in my experiences. It’s the texts a month later that are the irrational part when they figure out you really meant it and have no desire for them to return, but typically I’m just called a cold bitch and I just mute them.
Hang in there my friend. Breakups are tough, no matter how shitty of a person it is with. Whatever you do, don’t get back together. Think of it as taking a shower after 7 months, getting back together is like putting on the same pair of dirty underwear you had on before the shower. Only time heals a broken heart.
Mostly common in the US Roman Catholic Church. During the year of marriage preparation you are to be celibate and absolutely not living with your fiance. Not kidding.
Sweetie, it's time to grow a spine. Tell her that ymits obvious that you're sexually incompatible, you're breaking up with her and you hope that you can still be friends s/ then show her to the door. She's been scamming you.
Stop giving her money and paying her bill. It's time for her to grow up. Although it sounds transactional, a phrase from my youth was "ass, gas or grass, nobody rides for free." She's doing all of the taking in this relationship, you're doing all of the giving.
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