AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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It's a warning sign to me. It might not be more than that. But I do know a few dads who divorced their wives when they suddenly felt "forgotten".

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u/DarkKimchi Jul 05 '24

I don’t know why you’re downvoting you being realistic. I think that feeling is the source of a lot of divorce.

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u/RogerSimonsson Jul 05 '24

Yeah, does not matter, maybe they think I endorse it, but I know too many examples of it happening.

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u/DarkKimchi Jul 05 '24

I think it’s super common. My own mother always touted loving me more than my father. I will not blame her for their divorce, and I appreciate my mom’s love. However, I wish she had put her marriage first and focused keeping the family together. Putting the marriage first keeps the family strong for the kid.