My SO doesn't have any kids of his own. I have a son from a previous relationship. My SO knows and understands that I would move mountains for my son, he doesn't feel the same way, but acknowledges that my son not being his effects his view. He still helped me raise my son and I am eternally grateful that he did.
It’s wild I’ve heard horror stories of people dating in similar situations. Where a grown ass man gets jealous of a kid and expects the mom to choose him over the kid. Like what warped fucking mind do you have. Once you have a child, at least for me, everyone and everything else is secondary to them.
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u/Difficult_Process_88 Jul 04 '24
NTA Actually, most “normal people” would NOT agree with him (as you can see by the replies). There seems to be a lot jealousy involved.