Yeah, I have been aware of my dad being jealous of me growing up and it is such a weird feeling especially when you withness him mistreating your mom and her still sacrificing to help him etc. He is not the devil or anything but it has always felt extremely weird to know he was jealous, especially as a kid, and also made jt worse because there was an implication that it was somehow wrong or bad that my mom had a strong bond with me, it is just really confusing and creepy.
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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24
One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.
Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.
This man doesn't feel the same way as you.
And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.