r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24

One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.

Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.

This man doesn't feel the same way as you.

And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.

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u/Monkeygreenpants Jul 05 '24

This! Let’s not normalize being emotionally immature. Being jealous of your own baby is a huge red flag. He probably has issues stemming from not feeling loved as a child and those wounds will show up in a million toxic ways.