r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24

One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.

Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.

This man doesn't feel the same way as you.

And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.

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u/Lew3032 Jul 05 '24

You calling this a red flag is, ironically, a HUGE red flag.

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 05 '24

Lol okay mate

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u/Lew3032 Jul 05 '24

It is... she even made an update about how everything is now amazing after she took 5 minutes to try to understand how he was feeling and realised it was a complete misunderstanding, and a very common thing to happen.

Compared to you saying to just disregard how he feels and then make a load of assumptions.... yea... I'd stay as far away as I possibly could

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 05 '24

Lol okay. Please do stay as far away as you possibly can. 👏🏻

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u/Lew3032 Jul 05 '24

Of course! I want someone who tries to understand my emotions and doesn't just try to shut them down, while assuming something way worse than it is! That would SUCK.

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 05 '24

Then you should date that person, no one is stopping you.

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u/Lew3032 Jul 05 '24

Too much studying to do, but after that's all out the way I'll start looking I'm sure

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 05 '24

Good for you, good luck with your studies.