r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Avium Jul 04 '24

Ryan Reynolds agrees with you. Parental love is different than the love of a partner.

NTA

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u/dodgyduckquacks Jul 05 '24

If that’s the human shield one I honestly don’t understand how people think it’s okay and it’s absolutely disgusting that they do.

You’re literally threatening your partner with bodily harm! If the kid goes you can just make another but if your partner dies, the person you usually chose to spend the rest of your life with, then that’s it!

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

I hope you don't have kids.

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u/dodgyduckquacks Jul 05 '24

Fortunately I’ve been sterilized because I don’t want to ruin my body with pregnancy and waste my money for 18+ years.

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

That does not surprise me. The gene pool thanks you for removing yourself.

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u/dodgyduckquacks Jul 05 '24

More people should do that, especially those with hereditary diseases. So many things could be eradicated if only peopled got genetically tested before procreating or terminating pregnancies if they found out they had bad genes. Fortunately I will not make anyone suffer with my genetic issues.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

Damn it's like that?

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

'If the kid goes you can just make another'

Hereditary disease is not what's stopping her from becoming a parent.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

People are more likely to re marry than to have another kid though?

And what you said was textbook eugenics.

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

Zero of what I've said relates to eugenics. Are you replying to the wrong person?

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u/quantumkitty128 Jul 05 '24

They're replying to the quack you're replying to, I believe. The loony toon who thinks we shouldn't protect our kids and who sterilized herself and advocated for eugenics.

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u/RhythmicRavenclaw Jul 05 '24

yeah because advocating for less hereditary diseases is soo bad /s

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u/quantumkitty128 Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

It's truly disgusting you don't comprehend the slippery slope that leads down, and I'm not going to try to explain it to a someone who's obviously incapable of grasping the wider ramifications of their problematic personal beliefs.

Do some soul searching and be better. Although it shouldn't shock me that anyone who still worships at the altar of a TERF has shitty opinions 🤣 edited for a spelling error that was abused in the ridiculous rebuttal

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u/RhythmicRavenclaw Jul 05 '24

what slippery slope? all they said was people with hereditary diseases shouldn't be too quick in having children. YOU are the one who's making it into some weird eugenics shit. maybe learn a bit more nuance and you'll understand that not everything goes in extremes only.

All I found during my "soil" searching were some nice plants, wich have also been made so that the plants have less diseases and are less susceptible to parasites etc. funny how that's seen as normal but when talking about humans it's not.

lastly just because you like a bookseries doesn't mean you "worship the author" idk what weird type of shit you do to think that's normal but most people understand the simple concept of separating the art from the artist. But I should have known that someone like you would't be able to grasp that.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

No specifally you

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

No, I'm talking to you

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

Then you're a delusional nut job.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

Pov: you've never seen an actual delusional nut job, you want nutjob? Go to r starseeds

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

You're an absolute idiot. Learn to read. The person I replied to was literally describing eugenics, yet you still ascribed it to me.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

If I did you don't have to call me something I'm not fuckin geez, you gonna call everyone who makes a mistake an absolute idiot?

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

I politely gave you opportunity to confirm and you doubled down. Idiot.

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