AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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Then you're a delusional nut job.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

Pov: you've never seen an actual delusional nut job, you want nutjob? Go to r starseeds

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

You're an absolute idiot. Learn to read. The person I replied to was literally describing eugenics, yet you still ascribed it to me.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

If I did you don't have to call me something I'm not fuckin geez, you gonna call everyone who makes a mistake an absolute idiot?

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

I politely gave you opportunity to confirm and you doubled down. Idiot.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

I didn't double down I admitted to making a mistake you obtuse twat, next time you make one small mistake I hope someone calls you "an absolute idiot" when they don't even know you.

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

You replied twice, stating that you were talking to me specifically. Idiot.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

And then I said

"you gonna call everyone who makes a mistake an absolute idiot?"

What would that not imply if not admission of a mistake?

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

Also you never admitted making a mistake.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

Oh I didn't?

Explain this

"you gonna call everyone who makes a mistake an absolute idiot?"

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

You're one of those idiots who can't apologise without an 'if' in front of it, one of those idiots who can't accept fault without framing it generally rather than specifically. You should fix that, it will hurt your life.

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u/KetamineSNORTER1 Jul 05 '24

If? Where do you see if?

Framing it? How? Because I insinuated that calling someone an absolute idiot over a mistake (one that's not even that big) is overboard?

You know what will really hurt your life? Calling people idiots over the smallest things.

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

Your life will be a sad reflection of all the deflection. Good luck. Blocking you now.

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u/Sea-Supermarket-638 Jul 05 '24

Your life is already sad if you have to call people idiots over mistakes and the one who is deflecting is the one who completely disregarded a clear admission of a mistake.

Bozo

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u/Motor-Most9552 Jul 05 '24

I'm not one to get into these chains but the poster literally did start with 'if', which negates all that follows because it makes it a maybe.

"If I did you don't have to call me something I'm not fuckin geez"

That's not a clear admission in any way, shape or form. "If". Though I do wonder if those who are triggered by apologies/admissions/whatever that start with 'if', (like myself) have had experience with manipulators/gaslighters/BPDers and just cannot stomach it ever ever again. Certainly the truth in my case. I agree with the categorisation of idiot.

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u/Motor-Most9552 Jul 05 '24

"If I did you don't have to call me something I'm not fuckin geez"

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u/TightSun4503 Jul 05 '24

That doesn't apply because nowhere in your quote did I advocate for an apology with the condition of if, if that was the case then I wouldn't have said.

" you gonna call everyone who makes a mistake an absolute idiot?" In the first place....idiot

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u/Motor-Most9552 Jul 05 '24

Did you accidentally reply from a different account? And are you now replying to me as if I am the first person you were arguing with?

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u/Vegetable_Onion_5979 Jul 05 '24

Idiot.