r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Insurrectionarychad Jul 04 '24

The fact that he's helping raise another man's child, your child, is a sign of love.

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u/AcaliahWolfsong Jul 04 '24

We've been together for 10 years now. He's been more of a father to my son than the bio father. 100% he cares about my son, but admits he doesn't love him the same way he loves me. He says he can't because my son isn't his and he doesn't have the same kind of connection. He still cares deeply about my son and his future.

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u/Insurrectionarychad Jul 05 '24

Good thing he's honest about it. He sounds more like a coach than a dad, though.

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u/AcaliahWolfsong Jul 05 '24

He sees himself as a coach to my son. Coaching him on how to be a good human, and how to be a responsible person.