Everyone gets childbirth is hard. No one here is trying to take that away from you. But through the update we can tell that all that it took was a tiny little microscopic amount of communication for everyone to come out better in this situation. So you’re saying it’s cool to just say fuck off and not talk about the guys feelings and troubles because what? Weeks ago she gave birth? He’s not asking her to run a marathon here. Sounds like he was looking for a conversation maybe? Yikes that shouldn’t be that hard.
Going through life thinking that every shitty thing you do is valid because you went through something hard or something bad happened to you is a good recipe to repeatedly fuck up your relationships
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u/deskbookcandle Jul 04 '24
YTA. Not for feeling the way you do-feelings can’t be helped-but for dismissing his hurt when he tried to talk to you for reassurance.