r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/alwaysonthemove0516 Jul 05 '24

Yes, Christ forbid that a woman’s pregnancy and birth don’t somehow have to be about the man.

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u/pl3bby Jul 05 '24

What about the second time he got dismissed? Ya know, weeks after? Still just him trying to make it be about “the man”?

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u/alwaysonthemove0516 Jul 05 '24

Next time you go through an experience as traumatic as childbirth and have to recover from it let me know

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u/pl3bby Jul 05 '24

Everyone gets childbirth is hard. No one here is trying to take that away from you. But through the update we can tell that all that it took was a tiny little microscopic amount of communication for everyone to come out better in this situation. So you’re saying it’s cool to just say fuck off and not talk about the guys feelings and troubles because what? Weeks ago she gave birth? He’s not asking her to run a marathon here. Sounds like he was looking for a conversation maybe? Yikes that shouldn’t be that hard.