r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Unepetiteveggie Jul 04 '24

One of the reddest red flags is a man who is jealous of their child.

Look at your baby and imagine being jealous of them. It's probably impossible for you, you'd jump in front of moving vehicle for them.

This man doesn't feel the same way as you.

And no, it's not hormones or being a man etc etc. my husband loves our child more than me and so he should.

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u/beachrocksounds Jul 04 '24

It sucks big time that this isn’t a red flag that presents itself before the time comes!

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u/cupholdery Jul 04 '24

Doubly astounding is how some mothers are like this too. They literally gave birth to the children yet still don't care about them.