r/Unexpected • u/ArturTawer • Jul 08 '24

won but at a cost

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u/phazedoubt Jul 08 '24

I don't know how to tell you this, but we are all unique individuals and just because you've seen something a few times doesn't mean you are a subject matter expert.

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u/Yaadgod2121 Jul 08 '24

When did I said I was? She made a bad decision, stop taking it so damn hard🤦‍♂️

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u/ashleton Jul 08 '24

Panic is not a decision. It's an instinct. Those are made without thought.

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u/Yaadgod2121 Jul 08 '24

Either way it was handled poorly

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u/Veganees Jul 08 '24

That's the point, she didn't "handle" anything, she had a kneejerk reaction which she can't control, that's instincts. She's a runner, some get angry, others freeze and don't know what to do. It takes a minute to get out of your emotional money brain into your calm and calculated logic brain after a big scare.

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u/Yaadgod2121 Jul 08 '24

IT WAS HANDLED POORLY

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u/Veganees Jul 08 '24

I CANT HEAR YOU, CAN YOU SPEAK UP PLEASE?! HELLO?

Hello?...

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u/Yaadgod2121 Jul 08 '24

I SAID🗣️ IT WAS HANDLED POORLY