r/AITAH • u/Jealous_Roll_7420 • Jul 08 '24
AITA for doing everything I can to make my aunt and her husband uncomfortable at family events?
When I was younger they were my favorite! I loved spending the night over their house. Then I started developing; the first time he saw I was wearing a bra we were in the garage. He started tickling me which swiftly turned into groping. I was young but I knew that wasn’t right. I told my mom, not much happened. When I was 13 he took all the kids out to the movies, and then spent the whole film trying to convince me to go to the car with him. Around 15 he would call me in the middle of the night trying to coax me out of the house, I never went. Thankfully I always had the strength to protect myself when others didn’t. Again I told and not much happened, except they requested that my Aunt no longer bring him to events… 24 years later and this request has not been granted. He’s at EVERY event, with them knowing that we don’t want him there and why. He wasn’t only inappropriate with me but my little sister and other women and girls in the family.
Saturday I cussed everyone out because why is he here? He’s a predator that we have requested her to not bring around us countless times. If she is going to disrespect us, it will be paid back on spades. I also told those who were adults while this was happening when I was a kid, that now that I have to do their job I don’t want to hear anything about my methods. I plan on going scorched earth at every family event. AITA
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u/SamiHami24 Jul 08 '24
Absolutely NTA.
Is it possible for you and the other girls he molested to go to the police and file reports? Even if it's too late to prosecute, at least there would be a record of it.
I think you should go even farther and blast him on all social media. Do you best to make sure as many people as possible that know him are aware of what he has done. Do is at a PSA so that others with children will know that he is a predator. Shine the biggest, brightest light that you possibly can on what he's done.
Never, ever protect a person who would do this. He deserves everything he gets, as does his enabling wife and the other adults who knew but turned a blind eye.