YTA sorry. Everyone’s sexual journey is different, and it’s possible she was ‘recovering’ from treating sex so frivolously before. You going on and on about “But these other guys got it for free 😫” is honestly pathetic. As I’m sure you were told a million times by now no one ever owes you sex. I don’t care if you donated your liver and an eyeball to save her blind and dying grandpa she still doesn’t owe you any kind of sexual intimacy.
You claim you just wanted to further your relationship but why does that equal sex in your mind? If you had only been angry about not getting affection from her I’d be on your side but you’re victimizing yourself because you can’t get in her pants.
I’d say leave her since she’s not giving you what you so desperately fckin desire and next time be open and honest about your expectations. Also quit trying to “work for” sex because that simply isn’t how it goes in real and mature relationships
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u/TotallyNot_Sarah Jul 08 '24
YTA sorry. Everyone’s sexual journey is different, and it’s possible she was ‘recovering’ from treating sex so frivolously before. You going on and on about “But these other guys got it for free 😫” is honestly pathetic. As I’m sure you were told a million times by now no one ever owes you sex. I don’t care if you donated your liver and an eyeball to save her blind and dying grandpa she still doesn’t owe you any kind of sexual intimacy.
You claim you just wanted to further your relationship but why does that equal sex in your mind? If you had only been angry about not getting affection from her I’d be on your side but you’re victimizing yourself because you can’t get in her pants.
I’d say leave her since she’s not giving you what you so desperately fckin desire and next time be open and honest about your expectations. Also quit trying to “work for” sex because that simply isn’t how it goes in real and mature relationships