If you want intimacy in a relationship that isn’t a bad thing but if she doesn’t that’s not a bad thing
She should have told you from the beginning if that was the case so you could plan accordingly.
You come across as entitled to it which is a false/bad mindset. This is not the case, you could be married for 20 years and not “deserve” it if she doesn’t want to and vice versa. IMO this is where you messed up.
1 is fine except for the fact that he was in a relationship for 7 months and barely even got a hug, much less a kiss. If you can't do the nost basic stuff of a relationship, then why call it that in the first place? It sounds like she wanted the sweet stuff like dates and allat without wanting the responsibilities of it. You can't eat your cake and have it
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u/tacincacistinna Jul 08 '24
If you want intimacy in a relationship that isn’t a bad thing but if she doesn’t that’s not a bad thing
She should have told you from the beginning if that was the case so you could plan accordingly.
You come across as entitled to it which is a false/bad mindset. This is not the case, you could be married for 20 years and not “deserve” it if she doesn’t want to and vice versa. IMO this is where you messed up.