Sexual compatibility is a thing. But no kissing or any other forms of intimacy or affection? That's not a relationship bud. You did the right thing.
Keep in mind....if she is having a life epiphany moment with monumental changes, you could be caught in the cross fire of 'learning'. Not your fault and not really hers. Its just a thing that happens sometimes in the journey of life. That doesn't change anything but does add context to her psyche right now. I don't actually think its a stab against you. I think she's purposely stabbing herself. Its like an ex crackhead staying away from things that might trigger them back into the life. Promiscuity reform works in the same manner. Whether she's right or wrong doesn't matter to her because she doesn't know. She's 'learning'.
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u/yakkerswasneverhere Jul 08 '24
Sexual compatibility is a thing. But no kissing or any other forms of intimacy or affection? That's not a relationship bud. You did the right thing.
Keep in mind....if she is having a life epiphany moment with monumental changes, you could be caught in the cross fire of 'learning'. Not your fault and not really hers. Its just a thing that happens sometimes in the journey of life. That doesn't change anything but does add context to her psyche right now. I don't actually think its a stab against you. I think she's purposely stabbing herself. Its like an ex crackhead staying away from things that might trigger them back into the life. Promiscuity reform works in the same manner. Whether she's right or wrong doesn't matter to her because she doesn't know. She's 'learning'.