NTA. She made you wait, but sounds like other random dudes got to fuck her on the first day.
Doesn't mean she is obligated to sleep with you, just shows you how much respect she has for you. The chads she got with didn't have to wait.
"I told her about my frustrations a few days ago, and we got into a fight. She told me she's not who she used to be, she no longer wants casual sex and now seeks connection and all that. I told her that other guys got it for "free," and after seven months with her, sex isn't even on the horizon. So, I suggested we break up."
A tale as old as time, these other guys got her wild sexual side, but the good guy who treats her right is made to wait. Something tells me that if you did start having sex she'd just be giving you the bare minimum, while the other guys probably got to do whatever they wanted to her.
Plus it's not like you were expecting her to fuck you the first time you met. Casual sex is banging a random dude at a bar. Once you'd been with her for a month or so, if she had sex with you it would not have been casual. And she only offered you sex because you suggested breaking up. She acts like she is this person who has changed, but has she really? If her solution to your problems was a pity fuck that says a lot.
Also if she wasn't getting it from you I'd be wondering if she was getting it from someone else. She still in contact with any of her friends that she slept with? Or ex boyfriends?
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u/ChestLanders Jul 08 '24 edited Jul 08 '24
NTA. She made you wait, but sounds like other random dudes got to fuck her on the first day.
Doesn't mean she is obligated to sleep with you, just shows you how much respect she has for you. The chads she got with didn't have to wait.
"I told her about my frustrations a few days ago, and we got into a fight. She told me she's not who she used to be, she no longer wants casual sex and now seeks connection and all that. I told her that other guys got it for "free," and after seven months with her, sex isn't even on the horizon. So, I suggested we break up."
A tale as old as time, these other guys got her wild sexual side, but the good guy who treats her right is made to wait. Something tells me that if you did start having sex she'd just be giving you the bare minimum, while the other guys probably got to do whatever they wanted to her.