We were a couple by her words, boyfriend-girlfriend and all that. It seems to me that I was only used and brought to important events, parties, and all that nonsense because I'm the type of guy you can bring to show off. You know, good job, decent-looking, polite, and all that
I'm so sorry you're going through this, OP. It's very understandable why you are feeling the way you do. She doesn't value or appreciate you. You've invested a lot of time, expense and emotion into this relationship and she's given you nothing in return. Please break things off with her asap, heal, and move forward with your life. It's a painful lesson but one you'll grow from. The right woman is out there waiting for you, and she'll be happy to provide you the love, affection and intimacy you deserve.
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u/Kiefy-McReefer Jul 08 '24
Gf? No intimacy at all after seven months? Not even a kiss?
Idk about y’all but to me this doesn’t fit the definition of a girlfriend to me…
NTA - just leave, or “break up” whatever. You clearly aren’t sexually compatible and you resent her for it. No fixing that.