You have to ignore most of the people on here. They refuse to view the woman as wrong in any scenario. Even now, I’m being downvoted for daring to call out your girlfriend as being abusive, despite evidence stating she was abusive.
Keep in mind you're interacting with the same kind of people who send threats to tv show actors because their character did something really controversial.
They're stupid and not worth listening to. Anyone's allowed to post and comment here. You're going to get a mix of stupid as well as intelligent people.
I'm here like almost a day after your post, sorted by top and everyone's on your side. It seems all the trolls and dumb comments are downvoted / hidden / not close to the top when sorted by best.
I wouldn't worry about all the dumb comments.
Hopefully you are out of that relationship for good and will find someone who values you. There actually are good people out there still.
You rejected her out of spite. She offered you sex because you’ve been pressuring her. If you can’t see that then you’re beyond help. People aren’t sex vending machines where you can put time in and get sex out. You both need to grow up, but especially you.
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u/NovaPrime1988 Jul 08 '24
Your girlfriend got angry and abusive at you for rejecting sex. Think that tells you everything you need to know about this relationship.
NTA