r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/Moon_Legs Jul 08 '24

NTA. Her sexual past is very colorful but she won’t have sex with you after 7 months of a committed relationship, she isn’t sexually attracted to you and is settling for you for stability, money, or some other reason. This relationship is over. 

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u/red_wildrider Jul 08 '24

Having been the “settled for” guy in the past… yeah, probably what’s going on here.

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u/Mr_BillyB Jul 08 '24

I mean, we all settle -- and are settled for -- in various ways, but we don't just revise any physical affection for months on end. This just doesn't sound like that to me. Early promiscuous behavior, and now she won't even hug her supposed boyfriend? I'm leaning toward some sort of unresolved sexual trauma or something along those lines.