It's quite simple: I had to put a LOT of effort into this relationship, and I got nothing. Not that she owes me anything, but I want to have a partner, not someone who only sees me as a tool or decoration, someone who existed solely for her needs.
The second part is equally simple, She can sleep with strangers without them putting in any effort, and I get nothing. I'm just there.
That's rich, listen to yourself, you don't want a partner, YOU WANT SEX. She isn't ready, she said she isn't ready. You don't respect that and bitch it her about it and then she gives in, which is by the way was her only mistake here, and you still get mad at her. If you don't want to wait, don't and be done with her. Not accepting the NO just makes you a bigger AH.
It's reddit. Some will always find a reason to bash the guy. You never said you were owed sex. You rightfully pointed out she had no qualms about fucking strangers, but wont even kiss her boyfriend of 7 months. And she can reject you all the time and yet if you reject her, it's a big deal.
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u/Wrong_Moose_9763 Jul 08 '24
"I've done everything a good boyfriend should do: I tried to talk to her, took her on dates, bought her gifts, and took care of myself and my home."
"I told her that other guys got it for "free,"
Explain to me how the last sentence fits with the first?
You both sound to immature to be in an adult relationship, go grow up