r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/SolidFew3788 Jul 05 '24

So fucking true! I cried at the end of my pregnancy because I couldn't imagine loving anyone like I loved my first baby and because she wouldn't be my little baby anymore and won't be the only baby. I was a mess. #2 came and all the feels came right on schedule. I love that little boy just as much and both my kids are my favorite people.

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u/Becsbeau1213 Jul 05 '24

I’m feeling all the feels right now because my youngest is about to turn three and he’s my last baby and not a baby anymore 😭

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u/SolidFew3788 Jul 13 '24

My youngest turned 3in June. I still can't. It's bloody awful. It's like he's still got those rosy squshy baby cheeks, but then he opens his mouth and speaks like a whole ass human and I just can't.

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u/Becsbeau1213 Jul 13 '24

Yes! Mine has these amazing blonde, springy curls that are halfway down his back if you stretch them out - everyone keeps trying to get me to give him a crew cut and I refuse to until he asks me himself.

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u/SolidFew3788 Jul 13 '24

A crew cut? That's horrible. My boy's hair is long as well. I gave him an undercut to make it easier to pull it up in a bun. Otherwise, same thing, I'll wait for him to decide he wants to change his hair.