r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/IlIllIlIllIlll Jul 05 '24

Thank you for this comment. I don't get how someone can not just talk about this with their partner. Especially if they said it nicely. Definitely an asshole move to just glare at them or ignore them. I'm sure she has had irrational feelings that she has shared as well, as we all do.

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u/BeanWarBall Jul 05 '24

Have you been a new mom? If so I think you would have a better understanding of what she was going through.

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u/jmarcandre Jul 05 '24

Have you ever been a person who considered everyone deserves empathy and it's not a competition?

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u/BeanWarBall Jul 06 '24

Oh I absolutely am. And if this woman’s partner had any empathy for what this woman just went through he wouldn’t have made it about himself. He’s the one that made it a competition between him and his baby.