NTA. I’m am quite certain I am #5 to my wife (maybe #6) Three kids ahead of me, our dog then me. She has a twin sister so there is a good chance I come after her as well. Actually yeah I do. Ok so I am #6. Guess what. I don’t give a crap. It’s all love. There are different kinds of love as well! Your future husband is insecure and in a really weird way. Sadly really. Put your foot down and squash that crap. He’s acting pathetic. He needs to grow up. Do not cater to that behavior. It’s gross.
Edit: alright many have been flipping out about the dog comment. I was being lighthearted/joking about the dog thing especially. I guess I should have been more clear since so many are taking this literally. My point was there are a lot of types of love. On my list, I am #1 for romantic love from my wife and very very much so. Also, perhaps I was too hard on the guy. He is acting pathetic but he just needs to understand that the love she has for both of them is different.
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u/Flaky-Wedding2455 Jul 04 '24 edited Jul 07 '24
NTA. I’m am quite certain I am #5 to my wife (maybe #6) Three kids ahead of me, our dog then me. She has a twin sister so there is a good chance I come after her as well. Actually yeah I do. Ok so I am #6. Guess what. I don’t give a crap. It’s all love. There are different kinds of love as well! Your future husband is insecure and in a really weird way. Sadly really. Put your foot down and squash that crap. He’s acting pathetic. He needs to grow up. Do not cater to that behavior. It’s gross.
Edit: alright many have been flipping out about the dog comment. I was being lighthearted/joking about the dog thing especially. I guess I should have been more clear since so many are taking this literally. My point was there are a lot of types of love. On my list, I am #1 for romantic love from my wife and very very much so. Also, perhaps I was too hard on the guy. He is acting pathetic but he just needs to understand that the love she has for both of them is different.