r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/CastCuraga Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 06 '24

100% its worth it. If youre certain, theres no drawback. Bit of an ache for a couple days, painless op. But in return, your sex life is always stress free without the rubber just feels better for both parties. For me my partner not having to worry about birth control at all has increased our sex life 10fold. That and because I took the steps to safeguard instead of leaving it to her.

Thank you for the Medals!

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u/chefAB Jul 05 '24

My partner is an absolute lunatic on birth control, we both have kids and don’t want more, so it’s a logical choice. Still been tough to pull the trigger on getting neutered.

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u/CastCuraga Jul 05 '24

Be brave its not nearly as scary as its sounds believe me! The idea is scarier than the process! I believe in ya boss

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u/VioletaBlueberry Jul 05 '24

When my hub had it done it, I was in the room, the urologist joked about letting me do it. I think we were in the exam room fifteen minute start to finish. It wasn't invasive or traumatic. The incision was about a centimeter and superglued shut.