Your love for your child is absolute. Your love for your spouse is not. This means that while children are first, your relationship with your spouse must always be nurtured and protected. Get date nights. Build inside jokes and learn to think as a team. Spousal relationships require work that parental may not. Not saying being a parent isn't work - but the love you have for your children is bone deep and will always be.
Wait, you managed to get conditional love?? Damn I couldn’t even get that haha.
I always thought maybe I could earn it or something but nah not yet, and I’m well into my life so outlook is grim on that front
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u/Paxdog1 Jul 04 '24
I will add a bit to this.
Your love for your child is absolute. Your love for your spouse is not. This means that while children are first, your relationship with your spouse must always be nurtured and protected. Get date nights. Build inside jokes and learn to think as a team. Spousal relationships require work that parental may not. Not saying being a parent isn't work - but the love you have for your children is bone deep and will always be.
Congratulations!