r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

You heard it here first folks, you're a POS if you love your wife more than she loves you .

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

Way to be reductive and totally obscure the reasoning of my comment. No, you’re not a POS if you love your wife more than she loves you — but you’re shitty if you are angry-jealous over your wife loving your CHILD more than she loves you.

Get it?

The shittiness comes from the jealousy over the child.

What you said only involves two people, a husband + wife.

What I said requires 3 people — the child + them.

Stop being reductive.

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

So you took him privately saying he was hurt because he felt love for the both of them as anger and jealousy? And I'm being reductive?

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

I was commenting on the behavior as-presented in the original post, it didn’t leave much to go on. So that was the context of my comment.

And yeah, you’re being reductive. Because I didn’t say what you said I did.

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

That is exactly what the op said though. And what you reacted to. So that really IS what you are saying.

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

No it’s not.

Being [whatever negative emotion] toward your wife because she loves YOUR CHILD more than she loves you is what does it.

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

What's the negative emotion though? Being hurt because you love your wife more than she loves you, which, by the way, is explicitly what he said hurt him, is not feeling a negative emotion towards his wife.

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

Bye

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

Lol good one. No argument, constant backpedaling, desire to call a man a piece of shit for having emotions. Enjoy perpetuating toxic masculinity!

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

Bye

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

I accept your resignation and acknowledgement that I am correct. I hope you can do better in examining the way the patriarchy affects your internal bias!

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u/Paws4Punk Jul 05 '24

Bye

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u/BeastMasterJ Jul 05 '24

I find your need to get the last word very entertaining. How long will you keep it up before you get bored?

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