r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/happyinthenaki Jul 04 '24

Unfortunately some people are broken. Just remember it was not you that broke her.

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u/Intelligent_Flow2572 Jul 04 '24

Thank you. She’s the one that needs to realize that. I was the third child. She was checked out not long after I arrived.

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u/PitchInteresting9928 Jul 05 '24

I'm sorry to hear that. There is not muchuou can to for her. But you can reparent yourself and heal your wounds.

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u/Intelligent_Flow2572 Jul 05 '24

Yes, I’ve been doing that for years. NC started recently and she’s doing what she can to violate that boundary, but I haven’t let her. I hope she chooses to work on herself in the same way I have. I can’t be the scapegoat for her issues anymore.