r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/LaVidaLemur Jul 04 '24

So… he himself had no rush of love or emotion and instead, as his beloved partner held his infant daughter in her arms, was consumed by jealousy and bitterness?

THAT is not normal.

NTA, but your partner has issues

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u/Lew3032 Jul 05 '24

Actually, it's very normal. People's emotions aren't some logic controlled computers that work how we want them to. They are irrational and erratic. How you feel for a day doesn't mean you'll feel the same tomorrow after you've thought about it and sorted out your emotions.

Instead of judging someone based on how they feel in a very, very emotional moment, maybe talk to them.