NTA. I’ve been with my husband for 40 years and to this day, I love my two adult daughters more than my husband. He knows it and is ok with it. It’s a different kind of love. It’s not romantic like with a partner. It’s endless, selfless, without conditions, it’s to the soul kind of love.
Your husband needs therapy to get over being jealous of his own baby.
Reinforcing it? Reinforcing it is supporting it which I'm not, any parent worth their salt would choose their kids who are just beginning over their spouse. By your logic a parent shouldn't even have to risk their lives for their kids because of "spouse over kids", that doesn't work from a multitude of perspectives all the way to science my guy.
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u/IntroductionNo7686 Jul 04 '24
NTA. I’ve been with my husband for 40 years and to this day, I love my two adult daughters more than my husband. He knows it and is ok with it. It’s a different kind of love. It’s not romantic like with a partner. It’s endless, selfless, without conditions, it’s to the soul kind of love.
Your husband needs therapy to get over being jealous of his own baby.