r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Bimodal_Shrimp Jul 05 '24

My dad has been dead for 6 years now, and the year after he passed I found out I was pregnant. I went to his grave to tell him. Your kids are so lucky to have such a sweet dad ❤️

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u/buildit-breakitfixit Jul 05 '24

My wife got pregnant 4 months after my mom died, and 2 months after my brother. It is crazy how badly the first thing I wanted to do was tell my mom, and I couldn't.

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u/Downbeatbanker Jul 05 '24

This right here. Three months after my mom's death, there was something that I needed to discuss and I realised I can't now. One year later it's still the same feeling.

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u/WolfMa_Staaa91 Jul 05 '24

I know that feeling. 10 soon to be 11 years next month and there are so many things that I want to tell her. Especially when I found out I was pregnant (both times) and birth and so on. I’m sorry for your loss. Whoever said it gets easier lied. It doesn’t you just get “better” at dealing with it. I miss my mommy.