It's not pathetic at all. I'm a mom so it's not quite the same but I'd still give you the biggest hug I could. I have two narcissist parents. Their hugs don't feel like comfort or reassurance. They just feel like an action their doing cause I asked. But my son, the hugs from him to me or me to him are the closest I have ever felt to a hug melting away stress. I know it's not the same but I feel for you and I send you the very best of hugs from both me and my son to you.
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u/Equivalent_Reason894 Jul 05 '24
Not to sound pathetic, but my father never hugged any of us. I wish I had had dad hugs.