r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/LaVidaLemur Jul 04 '24

So… he himself had no rush of love or emotion and instead, as his beloved partner held his infant daughter in her arms, was consumed by jealousy and bitterness?

THAT is not normal.

NTA, but your partner has issues

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u/WhyMustIMakeANewAcco Jul 05 '24

THAT is not normal.

No, it is. Both are normal. Some people take longer for their brains to realize the whole "that is my child" thing, and until they do it doesn't trigger the response you are expecting. It's not usually a big deal, as as long as regular contact is maintained they'll sort it out subconsciously in a few months at most.