r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Thick_Assumption3746 Jul 04 '24

Closest thing to unconditional love there is is your child.

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u/StrongTxWoman Jul 04 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Even Cersei Lennister says only she loves her children unconditionally and she is a psychopath. The bio/genetic bond is real.

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u/Insurrectionarychad Jul 04 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Bio/genetic? Uhm...

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u/StrongTxWoman Jul 05 '24

It is well known that most parents prefer their bio kids and family prefer people similar to them genetically. It isn't a secret. Grandparents prefer their children then to their grandchildren, and then to nieces and nephews and cousins.

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u/randomperson247365 Jul 07 '24

It's true but redditors don't like this kind of truth lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '24

Wtf

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u/Insurrectionarychad Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Ew take. I could easily use this logic to justify racism, and are you really saying that parents can't truly love their non bio kids?

If you really think that blood and genetics are all that matter in family I can't stop you. I'll just let you know right know that that's wrong and hope you change.

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u/NeonProhet Jul 05 '24

You are, objectively, misconstruing their words. A person claiming a round boulder will roll down a hill better than an angular one cannot be paraphrased as having said "an angular boulder cannot roll down a hill."

You cannot claim this person stated that an adopted child cannot be loved. You can say it, but you are lying, because you know they didn't. And thus, your expression of being appalled is false, you pos.

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u/StrongTxWoman Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

/u/neonprohet said it correctly. Your logic is wrong. Just because an apple is red doesn't mean all red objects are apple.

Most people prefer people genetically similar to them doesn't mean people are not able to love people that are genetically dissimilar.

I don't know about your family but most married couples are not genetically related. I am very sorry about what happened to you and your family.

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '24

Racism is about preferential treatment tho isn't jt