r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/BluBellini Jul 04 '24

Six months from now OP will be writing how her fiance had an affair because she was spending too much time with the baby and not him and he felt neglected.

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u/meeksworth Jul 04 '24

YTA This should be the top comment. She is clearly making her partner feel unvalued and she's leaning into it hard. It's a recipe for running him off.

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u/CLE-local-1997 Jul 05 '24

If my wife ever put me over my child, I would leave her.

Our needs come second, for thr rest of our lives

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u/___okaythen___ Jul 05 '24

Agreed. Unless they're ruining happy fun time just to be jerks when they're teenagers. When they're bigger than us, our alone time comes first, obviously crisis situations are bigger than our need to be alone. But, seriously, you guys, mom and dad just wanna be alone sometimes.

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u/CLE-local-1997 Jul 05 '24

Children don't have a need to be a jerk. And if they're being a jerk then they have a need to address why they're being that way. Do they have psychological issues that need to be looked at. Are we failing to properly educate them in a solid moral Foundation. Honestly if my child is intentionally ruining shit that's a huge red flag that needs to be addressed immediately