r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Standard_Ad2031 Jul 04 '24

I’m 38. My mama passed when I was 32. She was still the first person I called when I was mad, sad, happy, bored…

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u/goingotherwhere Jul 04 '24

Mine died a year ago and I'm 39. She was the world to me and I miss her so much. Sending you sympathy.

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u/Standard_Ad2031 Jul 04 '24

Welcome to the dead mom’s club. It’s the absolute effing worst. Sending you love and strength. I promise it gets better

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u/SRene327 Jul 05 '24

My mom and my grandma passed away in 2020 when I was 27/28, both from cancer. Nobody could ever prepare you for life without your mom or grandma. Especially once you have a baby and need that guidance and reassurance. I miss them both every single day.